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Why the Best Parenting Advice Often Combines Research and Intuition

Sneak peek: How do we determine the best parenting advice? Tips on combining research and intuition to guide parenting.

Before starting grad school, I hadn’t really considered how much parenting research was out there. We hear snippets about the “best parenting advice” in the news from time to time, but rarely is it actually based on research. In reality, there are volumes, books, journals, and libraries full of parenting research that never see the light of day in terms of an actual parent (who’s not in academia) reading it.

Should we imply from this that parenting is so difficult an endeavor that we need this much research? On the contrary, I think this massive amount of research speaks to the importance of parenting in our world. We enter our parenting journey with love in our hearts. Along the way, our task of parenting becomes a bit more complex and we have many questions. Yes, some of the best parenting advice comes from traditional knowledge passed down from grandparents. However, in an ever-changing parenting landscape, we need to look beyond the realm of anecdotal evidence at times.

That’s where research comes into play. To my mind, the research is not meant to tell us how to parent in the “right way,” but rather it’s there to complement our innate parental intuition. We can use research to guide our decision making, to gain more insight into our children’s behavior, and to learn more about how children develop.

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Imagine feeling empowered to make parenting decisions based on real science, not societal pressure. Think about how confident you will feel when you have the knowledge and strategies to meet your child’s needs. Imagine looking at your children and knowing that they are developing a kind, empathetic spirit that will serve the world in a positive way.

This approach to parenting is possible. Reading child development research doesn’t mean you stop leading with your heart. This is why I created The Thoughtful Parent: to help parents have the knowledge to parent confidently from the heart.

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Parenting Research Basics…Start Here

In the midst of our busy lives, we sometimes forget about the big picture. These articles address the deeper questions about the purpose of parenting and why we should even care about child development research.

What is the Purpose of Parenting?

How Understanding Child Development Research Makes Us Better Parents

Why You Should Bother Reading Child Development Research

What is the Best Parenting Advice?

This is probably one of the most common questions parents have: what is the best parenting advice? While each person’s definition of “best” might be different, research does help inform our decisions and goals regarding parenting approaches. 

We can begin with parenting research but our intuition about each individual child must come into play as well. These articles strike this balance between relying on research but adding in what we know in our hearts about our children.

What is Positive Parenting and How Does it Help My Child?

Research-Backed Parenting Goals

The Best Advice for New Parents: Lead with Your Heart

5 Parenting Lessons Research Taught Us This Year

How Observation Taught Me 3 Child Development Lessons You Need to Know

what is the best parenting adviceResearch-Based Parenting Resources

If you’re reading this blog, you probably have some interest in research-based parenting guidance rather than just opinions. All these resources provide support and guidance based on the best research.

The 13 Best Parenting Books for Research-Based Guidance

Best Parenting Blogs to Keep You Learning and Growing

50 Best Child Psychology Blogs

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Common Parenting Challenges

As we go about our parenting journey, many challenges emerge. From sleep to technology to discipline, all the challenges are ones that research can help us understand. Understanding the latest, best parenting advice from researchers is key here because these challenges are often ones not faced by our own parents (or experienced in new ways).

Parenting Tips for When You’re In a Difficult Phase with Your Child

Will Co-Sleeping with My Kids Ruin My Marriage? Research-Based Answers

Why Your Facebook Feed Might be Making You Feel Like a Bad Parent

The Scientific Reason Why Yelling at Your Kids Doesn’t Work

Looking Beyond “Quality vs. Quantity” Time with Kids

One Thing You Can Do Tonight to Help Your Kid Sleep Better

Distracted by Your Device? This Parenting Research Will Change Your Perspective {plus a Printable Mantra to help}

Motherhood

Becoming a mother is one of the most life-altering decision I’ve experienced (and maybe you too!). These resources provide some insight and research about the ups and downs of motherhood.

Research Reveals the Real Reason Why You’re Losing Your Temper with Your Toddler

Getting Beyond “Count to Ten”: Learning to Be a More Patient Parent Using a Simple Process

Research-Backed Benefits of Being an “Older” Mom

Executive Functioning Skills: The New Research that Convinced Me to be a Soccer Mom Dropout

This is just a small snippet of the best parenting advice that is out there. Although I cannot cover every parenting topic, I hope to provide some research-based guidance with this blog. Enjoy!

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As a mom of two young boys, I've seen first-hand how research-based child development information, combined with intuition, can guide you through your parenting journey. Although I have a Ph.D.in Human Development and Family Sciences, many of my real parenting discoveries have come through my experience. I believe parenting with confidence comes from knowledge; parenting with grace comes from insight. Join me on this parenting journey of learning and discovery

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