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Gift Guides for Developmental Toys by Age

Sneak peek: Finding developmentally appropriate toys for kids can be a challenge at times. These guides provide parents with ideas for developmental toys based on age and area of development

After years of having “hit or miss” experiences in choosing toys for my kids, I decided to turn to the research. Yes, even when it comes to choosing developmentally appropriate toys, research can help us. One of the keys to toy-buying success is focusing on developmental toys. Considering the age of your child and the skills they are learning can be key to making good toy choices.

With that in mind, I’ve put together this list plus a series of guides that help you sort through child development toys by age, as well as certain skills we might want to foster such as social-emotional skills.

Developmental Baby Toys

One thing is clear from research on toys for babies–simple is better. While electronic toys are flashy and attractive, babies do not really need all the bells and whistles (literally). Traditional baby toys that focus on building foundational skills are ideal.

In fact, some studies have shown that too many electronic toys for babies might actually impede their language development as they mature. When babies play with electronic toys, their caregivers are less likely to use as many words while playing with them (because the toy is doing all the “talking”). Because of this, babies absorb fewer words in these play sessions. When it comes to baby toys, simple is best.

What are the best developmental toys for babies?

Simple, open-ended toys are ideal for babies. Here are some of our favorites.

baby play gym

This play gym is perfect for babies because of its interesting textures and high-contrast colors. The best part–it converts to a tent for toddlers! Great for years of fun.

bead maze

Bead Maze

A classic toy that engages babies’ fine motor skills and grasping skills. My kids always loved these.

sensory blocks for babies


Sensory Blocks

These are fun for babies to explore texture and shape. These are also soft so babies can even chew on them.

push toy for toddlers


 Push Toy

For older babies who are starting to try walking, this toy is a huge hit. It allows them to explore standing and taking a few steps while relying on the toy for balance.

pull and push tissue box toy

Pull and Push Tissue Box Toy

If you’ve ever seen a baby pull ALL the tissues out of the box (repeatedly) then you know why this is a great toy. They can pull over and over to practice. I wish I knew about this when my kids were babies!

Developmental Toys for Toddlers

shape puzzle

Shape Puzzle

One of the best classic toddler toys. It helps kids learn about shapes and spatial reasoning.

button art toy

Button Art Toy

This fun art toy is a great way to encourage fine motor skills and color learning.

Related reading: Expert Advice to Design the Ultimate Kids Playroom at Home

Developmental Toys for Preschool-Early Elementary Age

counting and sorting set

Counting and Sorting Set

This seems like such a simple toy, but it is perfect for preschoolers practicing counting and sorting. Plus the scoop tongs help build fine motor skills.

STEM building toy

Building Toy

Around elementary age, kids are able to really expand their imaginations with toys like this. They help develop creative thinking and STEM skills.

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preschool watch

Kid-Friendly Watches

These watches are so cool for kids learning to tell time. They clearly mark both the hours and minutes so those time-telling skills can be reinforced each time they look at the watch. For preschoolers, there are pictures of animals so you can tell kids at what time to expect routine changes. For example, you could say that when the little hand is on the cow and the big hand on the mouse, we will go to dinner. This is a great way to help preschoolers learn routines (and hopefully prevent some meltdowns). Genius!

Toys for Middle Schoolers (and up)

snap circuits

Snap Circuits

There is a reason these sets have been around for decades. Great learning with the fun reward of making something move or making a light turn on, etc.

kids walkie talkies

Walkie-Talkies

As kids reach middle school age, they want to hang out with friends more and more. Walkie-talkies can be a fun (screen-free!) way to keep in touch with neighborhood friends. They are also good for keeping in touch with you while at a nearby park or on a bike ride (many walkies have a mile+ radius).

Wait…there’s more! See these guides for more gift ideas

Toy-Selection Guides

Toddler Toys That Will Boost Children’s Development {and they’ll love for years!}

End the Gift-Giving Regret: Tips for Choosing Age-Appropriate (and Fun) Toys

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Fun, Meaningful Kids’ Gifts that Promote Kindness

Top Books to Read to Babies for Brain Development

Toys for Emotional Development: Gifts that Keep Giving

Research Shows Us Why Traditional Toys are Better for Infant Development {plus our favorite traditional toys}

Brain-Boosting Block Play for Toddlers {and older kids too}

Fun and Engaging Emotional Development Toys 

Enjoy browsing these guides and choosing toys that your kids will enjoy for years!

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As a mom of two young boys, I've seen first-hand how research-based child development information, combined with intuition, can guide you through your parenting journey. Although I have a Ph.D.in Human Development and Family Sciences, many of my real parenting discoveries have come through my experience. I believe parenting with confidence comes from knowledge; parenting with grace comes from insight. Join me on this parenting journey of learning and discovery

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