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Fun and Engaging Emotional Development Toys

Social-Emotional Development, Uncategorized · October 29, 2020

Sneak peek: Ideas for emotional development toys that kids will find entertaining and engaging.

Have you ever had a sinking feeling after purchasing a toy for your kids? You know the one I mean…the feeling that rises in you when you realize that the toy you just bought is useless. We’ve all been there. Maybe it was the fad “must-have” toy that your child begged to have for months. Or maybe it was that last-minute desperation purchase the night before a big gift-giving occasion. Whatever the situation, we’ve all had it happen.

It doesn’t make us bad parents.

Although it gets lost in all the commercialism of our society, toys really are not meant to be useless. They are meant to have a purpose. Toys and the play they promote are meant to help kids learn. By learn, however, I don’t mean the flashcard, rot type of learning that has become so popular in recent years. I mean real learning.

Learning that involves creativity, imagination, social play, stories, fine motor skills, and conversation. This is the real play that builds brains and develops skills. When we think about play in this way, we see that toys matter. The process and thought that goes into choosing toys matters too.

That’s why it’s important to consider what skills the toys we choose might help our kids develop. Now, I’m not some toy-choosing police who thinks all toys have to be super educational (aka boring) but I do think it’s helpful to be mindful about the toys we choose. This collection of emotional development toys is meant to be a guide to help you consider some toys in a new light. Many of these toys are classic standbys that we probably had as children ourselves. Seen in the light of social emotional development, however, the purpose of these toys take on a new meaning. 

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Social-Emotional Development Toys for Infants

Dolls (with emotion faces)

Dolls are, of course, a classic toy of almost every childhood. While any doll can promote emotional skills as a child cares for their imaginary baby, this one is unique because it includes emotional faces. Helping young children learn to read emotions early in life can help in social emotional development.

Crinkle Activity Book

These soft crinkle books have become popular with parents in the last few years for good reason–they help babies learn about texture and colors. This one in particular is great since it has high-contrast colors. The feature that helps make it a good social emotional development toy for an infant is that it also includes a mirror for babies to see themselves. While we know that babies do not know that baby in the mirror is themself, it is fun for them to explore faces.

Mom and Baby Activity Cards

Before I actually had a baby, I thought cards like this were sort of silly. I thought I would just instinctively know how to interact and play with my child. In many ways, that is true. However, we all run out of ideas! Once I had a baby of my own and was spending 24/7 with him, I realized the genius of these cards. They provide ideas for new ways of interacting and playing with babies. Any added interaction and conversation with have with our babies boosts their emotional skills.

My First Photo album

I really love this idea. I made one of these for my son when he was about 9 months old and he used it for years. Even as a toddler he loved looking at the pictures. Looking at pictures of relatives helps babies keep them in their memory and builds a better emotional connection with them. One of the best emotional toys (it’s not exactly a toy but you know what I mean) for our youngest ones.

Related reading: Classic Baby Books that Boost Brain Development

 

Toddler Toys for Emotional Development

The toddler phase of development is packed full of developmental milestones but also a few challenges. Toddlers do not have a lot of emotional maturity and their big emotions often get the best of them. Toddler toys for emotional development can help foster these skills so the emotional outbursts and tantrums eventually start to fade. 

Eggpressions Learning Toy

This emotion toy for toddlers is a clever way to foster learning about emotions. While emotions seem obvious to us, they are not so obvious for toddlers. They need support to understand the expression of different emotions and what they mean.

Doctor Play Kit

Although doctor kits have been around for decades as a child’s toy, they are still loved by kids. Why? Every kids loves pretend play. What research tells us is that kids need pretend play. Through pretend play, kids learn about empathy, self-control and emotions. By staying “in character” as a doctor (or other character) they learn how another person might be feeling and how to keep their emotions in check as they take on their “role” as doctor. A wonderful classic toy that promotes social and emotional development.

Puppets

Puppets are also traditional toys that are often overlooked in today’s modern world. Puppets, however, are a wonderful emotional support toy for toddlers. Just as with pretend play, when playing a puppet character kids have to take on the feelings and actions of another person (or character). This type of play build emotional intelligence by helping kids see the world through another person’s eyes.

Snuggle Buddies

I discovered this cute toy a few years ago and became a big fan (we have the fox at our house!). Kids loved stuffed animals but I always thought they were kind of useless until I saw this one. Each colored shape represents a category of emotions. When kids get upset or sad, they can refer to these visual reminders to talk through their emotions. Research shows us that visual reminders of intangible things (like emotions) can help kids (and adults) process feelings better. 

Related reading: Toddler Development: A Research-Based Guide for Parents

Gifts that Promote Social Emotional Development for Elementary Age (and up)

By the time children reach the elementary years, they have somewhat better control of their emotions. However, this doesn’t mean that their emotional development is done. Kids at this age often still need support in focusing on empathy, taking turns, caring for others and not going down the path of bullying or teasing of others. 

Caring Cats Game

This clever cooperative game motivates kids to use kindness and empathy to help get the cats out of tricky situations. Each cat has different attributes like kind words, helpfulness and sharing that can be used to move them down the path. A really fun social emotional learning toy.

Kimochis

The name of this cute toy comes from the word “feelings” in Japanese. These little creatures draw you in with their expressive faces. Each critter comes with smaller Kimochis inside their pouch that represent different feelings. These give kids a way to express and put a visual representation to their emotions.

Table Topics (teen edition)

The stereotype of teens is that they are quiet and sullen. I don’t think the teenage years have to be characterized by silence. These cards can help prompt real discussion with teens. The more talking we can do with our kids, they more their emotional skills will grow.

Stone Soup

Another fun cooperative game in which kids have to work together and use their memory to find the ingredients for their soup. It builds teamwork and cooperation. This game continues to get good reviews for being one of the best toys that promote social development.

Related reading: Super Simple, Research-Backed Ways to Raise a Thankful Kid

Cooperative Stretchy Bands

When I first looked at this item, I never would have thought of its potential as a cooperation-building toy but it really is. Kids have to work together and coordinate their movements to meet their goal. This one is wonderful because it is both an active game and boosts social skills. 

Silly Street

This game is so cool because it encourages so many different types of play in kids–drama, pretend play, active play and imaginative play. Players complete the actions on the cards (which are often super silly) to advance their game piece. Some cards are solo and others have you compete with other players. This silly fun actually builds a lot of emotional skills by using all the types of play.

Mindset Magnets

Did you have a set of word magnets on your fridge as a child? Or maybe those poetry magnets. Who knew those actually boosted learning so much? These magnets are special because they focus on positive affirmations and helping kids see their talents and uniqueness. What a great tool for older kids to build emotional intelligence.

Wonder Crate

There are so many cool subscription boxes for kids on the market now, it’s kind of overwhelming. This one, however, is extra special because it focuses on building emotional skills and global awareness. Each box includes a profile of a famous person who exemplifies qualities like resilience, courage, care for others, etc. It also includes a hands-on activity related to that person’s work. Some recent boxes focus on Jane Goodall, Vince Van Gough and Ruth Bader Ginsberg.

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Rock by Rock

Another wonderful subscription box I love is this one that focuses on character education and project-based learning. Each box includes information about a real-world problem (like an endangered species or destruction of rainforests), a hands-on activity related to that issue and tools to help build empathy and social skills related to the larger issue. This is a great box because it encourages hands-on exploration and social and emotional skills.

Big Life Journal

This one has been a favorite of mine for years now. Big Life Journal is one of the first (and best) growth mindset journal for kids. Helping kids foster a growth mindset is so crucial in today’s world. More than just a journal, this company has kits, posters, and now even an online video series to help kids build up all their emotional skills like resilience, confidence, and kindness.

 

Kid-Friendly Watches

Even elementary-age kids still need reminders on how to tell time on a traditional clock. These watches are wonderful because they help kids visualize both the hours and minutes. So smart! This helps with emotional skills by kids understanding routines and predict what’s next in their day (which often curtails meltdowns). Plus there are a lot of fun designs that kids will enjoy wearing. 

Building emotional skills is really the task of a lifetime. Truth be told, most of us adults are still working on managing our emotions and coping strategies. The sooner we can help our kids develop these skills, the happier and more meaningful lives they will have.

 

 

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