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Sneak peek: This back-to-school survival guide isn’t just a supply checklist — it’s a stage-by-stage guide to the emotional side of the transition too: before school starts, the big day, and the weeks after.
If you’re anywhere near back-to-school season right now, you already know it’s not just one hard day; it’s a whole season of transition. There’s the run-up (supplies, schedules, etc), then the mental gymnastics of “wait, are they ready for this?” Finally, there’s the big day itself. Then there’s the part nobody warns you about: the weeks after, when the newness wears off and the after-school meltdowns start. This back-to-school survival guide covers it all.
I’ve written about each of these stages separately over the years, but I’ve never put them together in one place…until now. Three transitions, one guide.
Back-to-School Stage 1: Before School Starts
Getting Ready for School (Emotionally and Otherwise)
Back-to-school prep is never just about school supplies, even though that’s where most checklists start. The bigger work happens underneath: figuring out what’s making your child anxious, easing separation worries, and building the kind of routines that make the first morning less chaotic.
In Back-to-School Preparation: Tips and Products to Make Life Easier, I cover both sides of this: the emotional groundwork (what to do when your kid says they don’t want to go, dealing with anxiety, etc. and the practical side (the supplies worth buying, and which ones are a waste of money).
Start here if: school hasn’t started yet and you’re still in prep mode.
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Back-to-School Stage 2: The First Day
What Your Kid Actually Needs From You
The first day of school is a milestone for your child, but it’s a quietly enormous day for parents too, especially if it’s a first “first day,” like kindergarten. It’s easy to assume that once your child seems independent, they need less from you. That’s really not true.
In To Parents on the First Day of Kindergarten: What Your Kids Really Need From You, I walk through the five things kids still need from us as they head into this new chapter, including how to help them process the harder moments, and why those after-school meltdowns aren’t actually a bad sign.
Start here if: the first day is imminent, or you’re in the thick of that bittersweet “my baby is growing up” feeling.
Back-to-School Stage 3: The Weeks After School Starts
Surviving the After-School Meltdowns
This is the stage nobody prepares you for. Your kid holds it together all day at school, and then falls apart the second they get home. It’s got a name — “after-school restraint collapse” — and it’s actually a sign your child feels safe with you. That doesn’t make it easier to handle in the moment, though.
In Surprisingly Helpful Calming Activities for Super-Active Kids, I share the unconventional things that actually worked for my own strong-willed, high-energy kids: things like Legos, “demo day,” and even messy potion-making. These are my go-to strategies when the usual advice falls flat.
Start here if: school’s already back in session and you’re dealing with daily meltdowns.
Your Back-to-School Survival Guide, All in One Place
Back-to-school isn’t a single day you survive, it’s a season. Wherever you are in it right now, there’s a post above for that exact stage. Bookmark this back-to-school survival guide, or better yet, subscribe below so you don’t have to go searching for it next year when you need it again.
📋 Want the short version to print and keep on the fridge? Grab the free one-page Back-to-School Survival Checklist — it pulls the most actionable tips from all three stages below into a single printable page. Just click on the image to download.
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