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“Day Dreaming” Among Students May Not be All Bad

August 30, 2012 by Amy Webb, Ph.D.
day dreaming may not be all bad

As school begins across the country, you may remember back on your own days as a student. I bet many of us recall sitting in class and our mind began to wander or “day dream.” Or maybe it wasn’t you, but a classmate you (or the teacher) could tell was “day dreaming” and not focused on the task at hand. Well, at the time, this may have garnered some disapproving looks from the teacher, but it turns out that a certain about of “day dreaming” can be quite useful for the brain.

In recent years, researchers have begun to look into what the brain does during these times of “day dreaming” or what they call “inward attention.” They are beginning to see how time spent focused inward may actually help students focus better on outward tasks. Some research has shown that when times of inward reflection were incorporated into the school day, students often became less anxious, performed better on tests, and were able to plan more effectively.

This makes so much sense to me. In our fast-paced, over-stimulating world, it is becoming rare to have a moment of inward reflection. To find this time, you really do have to plan it into your day. For someone with a more introverted personality, such as myself, I find this “down time” to be crucial to my mental health and well-being. I think the same must be true for children. Children are learning and absorbing information almost constantly, especially at school. It’s great to be able to allow them some time to just day dream or let their mind wander without having to worry about the end product. I have noticed this even with my 3-year-old. After playing for awhile, he will often just lay down and drink something or hold a toy, seemingly “doing nothing.” After a few minutes, however, he will perk up and say something clever or begin playing in a new way. It seems that, given the opportunity, kids will carve out this “day dreaming” time for themselves.

We all know the importance of children learning to focus their attention on outward tasks. In fact, this is one of the key skills of childhood. Focus and attention are consistently linked to all sorts of positive outcomes for kids. An inward focus, however, may be equally important for children to develop intellectually, as well as socially and morally.

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Category: Social-Emotional DevelopmentTag: child development, mental health, parenting

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  1. Zanni, Heart Mama

    September 1, 2012 at 1:19 am

    I love this post. I really think its important to allow children the chance to daydream. My daughter is only 2.5 but I am already concerned about school and the rigid environment they create for seven hours a day. I think space to dream and float between learning is so important. I have shared this post with my readers. 🙂

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  2. Amber

    September 16, 2012 at 1:39 pm

    I really wish I had embraced this more fully when we homeschooled Sammi last year. I felt like I was forever pulling her back to me to finish because there was always sticky little hands trying to pull me away. I knew if I left she'd never finish but I could only put off the littler ones for so long. Always such a tough balance to find. I can see, though, that day dreaming definitely helps her make connections faster than all my explaining ever could. My best, most inspired ideas come from letting my mind wander while considering a problem. Thanks for the reminder that daydreaming does, in fact, have a place in our education!

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  3. Susan (5 Minutes for Mom)

    October 20, 2012 at 1:46 pm

    That's a good way to look at daydreaming. My brother was always getting in trouble for daydreaming.

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Amy Webb
As a mom of two young boys, I've seen first-hand how research-based child development information, combined with intuition, can guide you through your parenting journey. Although I have a Ph.D.in Human Development and Family Sciences, many of my real parenting discoveries have come through my experience. I believe parenting with confidence comes from knowledge; parenting with grace comes from insight. Join me on this parenting journey of learning and discovery

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