When I was in graduate school I worked as a teaching assistant for various professors in the department. This job entailed the usual responsibilities—grading papers, helping students with assignments, and preventing cheating. Honestly, I had never considered the big question: why do students cheat?

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When the next assignment came around I again saw that her paper was well written. Then I read closer and I realized that some of the text seemed familiar. I went back to our journal articles and compared the text. I realized then that she had plagiarized whole paragraphs of the journal text in her article. No wonder I thought it was so well-written! Even worse was the fact that the article which she had plagiarized was written by the professor of the class!
Why Do Students Cheat?
Why would a student who seemed so intelligent and engaged bother to cheat? She seemed to have strong skills and be reading at least portions of the texts; why not take the time to do the assignment correctly?
Research shows that kids who are praised for intelligence are more likely to cheat on a later task, compared to those praised for performance.

The Research on Praise and Cheating

Tips and Resources for Promoting a Growth Mindset:
For younger kids, try to promote positive self-talk. Kids will often say things like, “I’m just dumb, I will never learn this.”
- Offer them language or little mantras to replace this negative talk with positive self-talk. In our house, we say, “Everything takes practice.” Another good option is focusing on the word “yet.” As in, “I haven’t mastered this skill yet.”
- For older kids, discuss famous failures who had to keep persisting over and over again until they were successful–Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison. Here’s a good list.
- Bring in examples from your own life. Did you experience a time when you thought you’d never succeed at something but kept persisting? Recall a time when your hard work really paid off. Your kids will probably love these stories and it’s great bonding time too.
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